Words of encouragement from those who know how hard it is!
Victoria, mom to a 3-year-old says: "Don't be afraid to ask for help."
You don't have to do everything alone. Go to your family, friends, and acquaintances. Find other single moms on social media. Be direct about what you need: shopping for groceries, meal prep for the week, laundry. You'll be surprised by how many people are happy to give you a hand.
Anna, mom of Valery who is 2 years old, assures us that "a sling is your secret weapon."
Babies like being in it, and you can keep doing your chores. Even going for a walk becomes easier because there is no need to fuss with a stroller.
Danielle, who has a 2-year-old girl says: "Don't forget to pat yourself on the back."
Celebrate small victories. If you managed to put the baby to sleep quickly, praise yourself. If you managed to run the vacuum cleaner while keeping your baby entertained, give yourself a hand! Even having a peaceful day, free of meltdowns, is enough reason to remind yourself that you indeed are a champion.
Erika, mom to Maria (5 years old) and Anthony (1 year old), reminds you to "listen only to yourself."
People will probably give you advice and criticize you. Don't listen to anyone. Nobody knows what you're going through. Nobody has the right to impose anything on you. Listen to your intuition, and do what's best for you. You know better than anyone because you are the mom!
Monica, who has a 6 and a 2-year-old advises other single moms to remember to take breaks.
You probably feel overwhelmed with your chores and tired from everything you have to do. But try to find a moment to play with your child and enjoy their laughter. These are priceless moments you'll remember for the rest of your life!
Sending hugs and best wishes!
