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Milestones during the first three months
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Milestones during the first three months

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Key takeaways
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  • Understand that newborn reflexes like the fencing and stepping reflex are automatic movements that gradually fade by 6 months to 1 year.
  • Watch for key 3-month milestones including head lifting, chest raising, hand-to-mouth coordination, and grasping toys.
  • Recognize that your baby transitions from automatic reflexes to controlled movements between 2-3 months of age.
  • Monitor your baby's ability to support their upper body with arms and kick legs as signs of healthy development.
  • Expect new skills like rolling over and leg-to-mouth coordination to emerge between 5-7 months.

By 3 months, babies master several key milestones including lifting their head and chest while on their stomach, supporting their upper body with arms, grasping and shaking toys, bringing hands to mouth, and kicking their legs when lying down.

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During the first year of life, a baby’s main task is learning to control their body. What have they mastered by two or three months?

Reflexes: what a baby can do from birth

From birth, babies can move in various ways, but these movements are automatic. They are part of the brain's hardwiring and don't need to be learned.

The fencing reflex

For example, if you turn your baby's head to the side, they will straighten their leg and arm on that side and bend their arm and leg on the opposite side. This posture is similar to that of a fencer [1].

There are other reflexes too. When you tilt your baby's head forward, they will clench their fists and tighten their foot muscles. If you place your baby on their stomach, they will turn their head to the side [1].

The stepping reflex

To test another reflex, hold your baby so their feet touch the floor or a surface and tilt their torso forward slightly. You’ll see their legs begin to "walk" [2].

Of course, this isn’t real walking; they are still far from learning to walk on their own.

New moves: what the baby learns

Reflexes gradually fade: some disappear in the second and third months, others by six months or a year. At the same time, the baby learns more and more movements.

What can a 3-month-old baby do? [3]

  • Raises head and chest when lying on stomach

  • Supports upper body with arms when lying on stomach

  • Stretches legs out and kicks when lying on stomach or back

  • Opens and shuts hands

  • Pushes down on legs when feet are placed on a firm surface

  • Brings hand to mouth

  • Takes swipes at dangling objects with hands

  • Grasps and shakes hand toys

All these skills are signs that your baby is developing well. By the age of five to seven months, your baby will master many more new things.

For example, they will learn to roll over onto their stomach and pull their legs towards their hands and mouth [1].

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Frequently asked questions

By 3 months, babies should lift their head and chest when on their stomach, support their upper body with arms, and bring hands to mouth. They should also grasp toys, kick their legs, and take swipes at dangling objects.

Most newborn reflexes fade gradually, with some disappearing by 2-3 months and others by 6 months to 1 year. This is normal as babies develop voluntary muscle control.

The stepping reflex occurs when you hold a baby upright with feet touching a surface and tilt them forward slightly. Their legs will make walking motions, though this isn't real walking ability.

Key signs include head control, reaching for objects, bringing hands to mouth, and supporting weight on arms by 3 months. If concerned about delays, consult your pediatrician.

Medical Disclaimer

This article is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition.

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Reviewed by healthcare professionals · Updated September 5, 2024

This article is based on peer-reviewed research and trusted medical sources.

  1. Developmental Milestones: 3 Months. AAP, 01.06.2009.

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