Even though a baby isn't able to speak yet, they are still communicating! You're struggling to understand them, and they are struggling to be understood.
A baby’s inconsolable crying can cause huge stress for parents. Biologically, it causes an increase in blood pressure, blood sugar, and a faster pulse. When this happens, it's critical not to dump your stress on the baby. Remember that they are crying because they lack another way to communicate with you. You are also the best person in the world to calm them down right now [1].
How can I figure out what the baby is trying to say?
Every baby is unique, but there are some common patterns in how they communicate through cries. For example, when a baby's diaper is dirty, they will most likely cry loudly and suddenly. When their stomach hurts, they will appear restless and anxious, making jerky movements with their arms and legs. When babies are hungry, they start with soft whimpers and grumbles; if they are not fed quickly, they start crying louder and making sucking gestures [2].
What if I can’t figure out what the baby needs?
Sometimes nothing seems to work. Sometimes a baby feels sick but no symptoms have appeared, but other times you simply don't know. In any case, keep the baby close. The warmth of your body effectively communicates to the newborn that they are safe and supported. Talk to the baby softly. These may appear to be minor actions that do not address the issue, but they have a greater impact than you realize [1].
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