Getting tired is normal
At this point in pregnancy, your partner feels the baby’s movements more and more. Some are gentle, others so abrupt that she can feel her stomach pull, but it’s all completely normal.
It’s also common for the expectant mother to experience swelling and soreness in her legs. During pregnancy, the adrenal glands produce more hormones, which cause fluid retention in the tissues, causing edema. In addition, a larger uterus affects blood flow from the veins in the legs to the heart. As a result, fluid can accumulate in the veins, and seep into the surrounding tissues, increasing swelling [1].
Lying on the left side can help manage swelling, as this prevents the uterus from pressing down on the inferior vena cava and does not interfere with the outflow of blood. Some women may be prescribed compression stockings by their doctor [1].
If your partner is still working, some of her daily duties may start to become more challenging, which can in turn cause a certain degree of frustration.
Tiredness is a natural physiological manifestation of pregnancy [2], it’s seldom about feeling too lazy to do things. A little extra support can come in quite handy right about now. Here are some tips for dealing with pregnancy fatigue.
Having realistic expectations
Remind your partner that her body is under stress because it is creating a human! So it’s natural for her to find everyday tasks more challenging. Lowering the bar and not setting unrealistic goals is a good thing.
Keeping plans simple
Everyday plans should be doable. One large task per day is more than enough. Planning to clean the entire house after she had a full workday is not the best idea [3].
Taking breaks
At work, your partner has to prioritize her breaks. Standing up often, stretching, and walking has to be part of her workday. This will help relieve muscle tension and prevent swelling of the legs [3].
Doing nothing
Sometimes what the body needs is complete rest. Every weekend doesn’t have to be an adventure, sometimes spending some quiet time at home, resting, or lying on the couch is just what a mom-to-be needs [3].






