When you are expecting twins, you need to be especially careful about your health. It's important to find a specialist you can trust 100%.
Over the next few months, you will probably see your ob/gyn more often than your friends. This is normal because a multiple pregnancy involves more tests and doctor's appointments than a typical one. To prevent frequent appointments from becoming stressful, you should be careful when choosing your doctor and be very proactive in the process [1].
Look for experience
A doctor's degree in obstetrics and gynecology does not mean they will work competently when it comes to a multiple pregnancy. Always ask how many twins the doctor has delivered and whether they have a special plan for such cases. Even a competent specialist can get confused when treating a multiple pregnancy, so specialized experience is essential.
Ask about your doctors
No one will tell you more about a doctor than their former patients. They can share things with you that no one talks about on clinic websites or social media pages. These details can turn out to be great or not-so-great, but it’s better to know about them in advance in order to avoid surprises during your appointments [1].
Trust your intuition
It may be that a doctor has an impressive track record and great reviews, but you just don’t click with them. This has nothing to do with you, sometimes what’s right for others may not be right for you [1].
Ask questions
Feel free to ask about anything that concerns you. There are no stupid questions, especially when it comes to pregnancy. When you do not understand what your doctor does during an appointment, ask them to be specific. Use every appointment to talk thoroughly with them and do not be afraid to ask why you need a particular drug or examination. Good doctors will calmly and respectfully answer all your questions and explain the meaning and purpose of their actions [2].
Don't tolerate rudeness
If you feel that your doctor is pressuring you, or if they intimidate, humiliate or make you feel flawed, guilty, ignorant, or if you feel they keep you in the dark, make sure to voice your concerns. Once you are in the consultation it may be difficult for you to find the right words, so rehearse what you want to say in advance. If the doctor doesn't listen to your wishes, do whatever you can to change doctors. It is your right to do so [2].






