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How to choose doctors you feel comfortable with
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How to choose doctors you feel comfortable with

3 min readWeek 17
Key takeaways
3 min
  • Prioritize doctors with specific experience delivering twins and managing multiple pregnancies over general obstetric credentials.
  • Seek honest feedback from former patients to learn details about the doctor's bedside manner and approach that aren't advertised online.
  • Trust your instincts when choosing a healthcare provider - impressive credentials don't guarantee personal compatibility for your healthy pregnancy.
  • Ask detailed questions about every procedure, medication, and test to ensure you understand your care plan completely.
  • Change doctors immediately if you experience rudeness, intimidation, or feel pressured during appointments.

Choose a doctor for your healthy pregnancy by prioritizing specialized twin delivery experience over general credentials, seeking patient testimonials, trusting your instincts about personal compatibility, asking detailed questions about your care, and immediately switching if you experience disrespectful treatment.

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When you are expecting twins, you need to be especially careful about your health. It's important to find a specialist you can trust 100%.

Over the next few months, you will probably see your ob/gyn more often than your friends. This is normal because a multiple pregnancy involves more tests and doctor's appointments than a typical one. To prevent frequent appointments from becoming stressful, you should be careful when choosing your doctor and be very proactive in the process [1].

Look for experience

A doctor's degree in obstetrics and gynecology does not mean they will work competently when it comes to a multiple pregnancy. Always ask how many twins the doctor has delivered and whether they have a special plan for such cases. Even a competent specialist can get confused when treating a multiple pregnancy, so specialized experience is essential.

Ask about your doctors

No one will tell you more about a doctor than their former patients. They can share things with you that no one talks about on clinic websites or social media pages. These details can turn out to be great or not-so-great, but it’s better to know about them in advance in order to avoid surprises during your appointments [1].

Trust your intuition

It may be that a doctor has an impressive track record and great reviews, but you just don’t click with them. This has nothing to do with you, sometimes what’s right for others may not be right for you [1].

Ask questions

Feel free to ask about anything that concerns you. There are no stupid questions, especially when it comes to pregnancy. When you do not understand what your doctor does during an appointment, ask them to be specific. Use every appointment to talk thoroughly with them and do not be afraid to ask why you need a particular drug or examination. Good doctors will calmly and respectfully answer all your questions and explain the meaning and purpose of their actions [2].

Don't tolerate rudeness

If you feel that your doctor is pressuring you, or if they intimidate, humiliate or make you feel flawed, guilty, ignorant, or if you feel they keep you in the dark, make sure to voice your concerns. Once you are in the consultation it may be difficult for you to find the right words, so rehearse what you want to say in advance. If the doctor doesn't listen to your wishes, do whatever you can to change doctors. It is your right to do so [2].


Frequently asked questions

Ask about their experience with twin deliveries, how many multiples they've delivered, and if they have specialized protocols for multiple pregnancies. Also inquire about their communication style and availability for questions.

Specifically ask how many twin deliveries they've performed and request details about their approach to managing multiple pregnancies. A general obstetrics degree isn't enough - you need specialized twin pregnancy experience.

Switch doctors if they're rude, intimidating, dismissive of your concerns, or make you feel uncomfortable. Trust your instincts - feeling respected and heard is crucial for a healthy pregnancy journey.

Talk to former patients who had similar pregnancies, check online reviews, and ask other healthcare providers for recommendations. Former patients can share insights about bedside manner and communication style that aren't found elsewhere.

Medical Disclaimer

This article is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition.

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Reviewed by healthcare professionals · Updated September 4, 2024

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