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He’s always crying!
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He’s always crying!

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Key takeaways
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  • Expect your baby to cry more in the first three months than any other period - this is completely normal and temporary.
  • Understand that infant colic affects babies under 5 months who cry over 3 hours daily despite conventional soothing methods.
  • Skip gas drops and abdominal massage as cures - research shows these don't effectively treat unexplained baby crying.
  • Monitor that your baby continues gaining weight and height normally, which indicates healthy development despite excessive crying.
  • Remember that spitting up is normal from 3 weeks to 12 months - simply hold baby upright after feeding to prevent inhalation.

Babies cry most during their first three months of life for unknown reasons. Infant colic, defined as crying over 3 hours daily in babies under 5 months, is a normal phase that parents must endure as it will eventually pass.

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He’s always crying!

Be patient! In the first three months of life, babies cry more than in any other period of life [1]. The reasons for this constant crying remain unknown.

For a long time, infant’s suffering was understood to be caused by intestinal colic. For a cure, drops to reduce gas or abdominal massage were suggested. In 1999, the Rome Foundation, a nonprofit research organization dedicated to understanding gut health, included infant colic in their a classification system for gastrointestinal disorders called the “Roman Criteria” [2].

In more recent years, the ideas about colic have been revised many times. Now there are doubts intestinal disorders cause colic. In American literature, colic is often described as "unexplained baby crying" [1]. Some researchers believe colic is triggered by migraines or even fear [3]. In any case, it’s clear that neither gas drops nor an abdominal massage will cure the crying.

New parents just need to understand that this is a phase. It will not last forever. It’s just a period of life that you need to go through and endure with your son.

What to pay attention to

In 2017, changes were made to the "Roman Criteria" concerning infant colic [2]. Colic is now defined as occurring in babies who are under five months old and:

  • experience periods of crying and irritability that are not soothed by conventional methods, like nursing and rocking.
  • cry for more than three hours a day
  • gaining height and weight, and shows no sign of failure to thrive

Nothing to worry about

Spit up. This is the norm for infants from three weeks to 12 months [2]. Just hold baby upright for a few minutes after feeding, so that he does not inhale what he has regurgitated.


  1. Infantile colic: Clinical features and diagnosis. Teri Lee Turner, Shea Palamountain. UpToDate, 2021.

  2. Rome IV Diagnostic Criteria for FGIDs. Childhood Functional GI Disorders: Neonate/Toddler.

  3. Colic. American Academy of Family Physicians, 2020.

Frequently asked questions

Babies cry more in their first three months than any other period of life, and the exact reasons remain unknown to researchers. This constant crying is a normal phase that all parents must endure, and it will eventually pass.

Infant colic occurs in babies under 5 months who cry for more than 3 hours daily with periods of irritability that aren't soothed by nursing or rocking. Despite the excessive crying, colicky babies continue to gain weight and show normal growth.

No, gas drops and abdominal massage are not effective cures for colic. Modern research shows that intestinal disorders likely don't cause colic, making these traditional remedies ineffective.

Yes, spitting up is completely normal for infants from 3 weeks to 12 months old. Simply hold your baby upright for a few minutes after feeding to prevent them from inhaling what they regurgitate.

You should be concerned if your baby isn't gaining weight or height properly, showing signs of failure to thrive. As long as growth is normal, excessive crying in the first months is typically just a phase to endure.

Medical Disclaimer

This article is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition.

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