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She’s always crying!
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She’s always crying!

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Key takeaways
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  • Understand that babies cry most during their first three months of life, and this is completely normal developmental behavior.
  • Recognize infant colic as unexplained crying lasting more than 3 hours daily in babies under 5 months who are otherwise healthy.
  • Accept that traditional remedies like gas drops and abdominal massage are not effective treatments for colic.
  • Remember that infant colic is a temporary phase that will pass, requiring patience rather than medical intervention.
  • Monitor that your baby is gaining weight and shows no fever or failure to thrive while experiencing colic episodes.

Infant colic is unexplained crying lasting more than 3 hours daily in healthy babies under 5 months. The exact cause remains unknown, but it's a normal developmental phase that passes with time and patience.

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She’s always crying!

Be patient! In the first three months of life, babies cry more than in any other period of life [1]. The reasons for this constant crying remain unknown.

For a long time, infant’s suffering was understood to be caused by intestinal colic. For a cure, drops to reduce gas or abdominal massage were suggested. In 1999, the Rome Foundation, a nonprofit research organization dedicated to understanding gut health, included infant colic in their a classification system for gastrointestinal disorders called the “Roman Criteria” [2].

In more recent years, the ideas about colic have been revised many times. Now there are doubts intestinal disorders cause colic. In American literature, colic is often described as "unexplained baby crying" [1]. Some researchers believe colic is triggered by migraines or even fear [3]. In any case, it’s clear that neither gas drops nor an abdominal massage will cure the crying.

New parents just need to understand that this is a phase. It will not last forever. It’s just a period of life that you need to go through and endure with your daughter.

What to pay attention to

In 2017, changes were made to the "Roman Criteria" concerning infant colic [2]. Colic is now defined as occurring in babies who are under five months old and:

  • experience periods of crying and irritability that are not soothed by conventional methods, like nursing and rocking.
  • cry for more than three hours a day
  • gaining weight, has no fever and shows no sign of failure to thrive

Nothing to worry about

Spit up. This is the norm for infants from three weeks to 12 months [2]. Just hold baby upright for a few minutes after feeding, so that she does not inhale what she has regurgitated.


  1. Infantile colic: Clinical features and diagnosis. Teri Lee Turner, Shea Palamountain. UpToDate, 2021.

  2. Rome IV Diagnostic Criteria for FGIDs. Childhood Functional GI Disorders: Neonate/Toddler.

  3. Colic. American Academy of Family Physicians, 2020.

Frequently asked questions

Babies cry more in their first three months than any other period of life. This constant crying, often called infant colic, has unknown causes and is considered normal developmental behavior that will pass.

Infant colic is defined as crying for more than three hours a day in babies under five months old. The crying periods are not soothed by conventional methods like nursing or rocking.

No, gas drops and abdominal massage are not effective treatments for infant colic. Recent research shows that intestinal disorders likely don't cause colic, making these remedies ineffective.

Contact your pediatrician if your baby isn't gaining weight, has a fever, or shows signs of failure to thrive. Normal infant colic occurs in otherwise healthy babies.

Infant colic is a temporary phase that typically resolves on its own. It's most common in babies under five months old and requires patience rather than medical treatment.

Medical Disclaimer

This article is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition.

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